Is this common in your country

I bench 80kg and no one lusts after me

maybe you need to do the lusting then

No, it is very uncommon for people to lift here beyond casual fitness. You will have the highest chance of finding that in USA since they have a big strength training culture. This is because American football is highly reliant on strength and is a very popular sport there.

I benched 70 at most :)

I bench 104 kg and sometimes I think someone lusts after me but I usually tell myself is not true. Is mostly fags though.

When I was at gym alot of the muscular guys mostly looked like they were lusting after themselves, looking in mirror all the time and getting boners.

Do slovenians really?

It do be like that

I have benched 50kg and now I stopped working out.
It's over for me

What do people mean when they say this. Does the weight include the bar too? Do you do all your sets with 90kgs or is it something you can do a few times?

Think its global phenomenon

All weight includes the bar fucknut it weighs 20kg it’s not a negligible amount

Become my twink

Yes it includes the bar. The standard bar is 45 lbs like 20 kg, so its heavy enough to take in consideration.
"Working sets" can be somewhere between 5 and 15 reps.

Okay cool, I wasnt sure because in my logs, I just write down the added weights. So does saying you can bench 90kg mean you do the whole 15x3 with it?
Damn I feel inadequate at 40kg

For me saying ”i can lift X” means i can do a working set with it, so like 6-8 reps or 80-85%

>So does saying you can bench 90kg mean you do the whole 15x3 with it?
Mostly, but some people will do 1 set of 5 reps with max weight to say they bench x amount.
>You-u dont get it, Im a powerlifter bro.