The need to be part of a group to have some sort of connection with someone this feeling of being stunted like everyone had already settled and made connections, but I am unaware on doing the same. Do you anons have similar feelings and experiences? How is loneliness like in your country?
Do you feel loneliness in your countries
Yeah this country is insane, any deviation from the norm socially and you're completely frozen out of society.
Add to the fact that it's an unwritten rule that all your friendships are made/decided before and during highschool and after that you literally cannot make real friends is hell.
This country is hell.
any QVEENS itt?
I feel like I’ve already missed my chance and I am still relatively young. Covid happend and this year I guess I was in my own world and soon I realized I was eating lunch by myself everyday and had no understanding of what peers were doing and achieving
Yea, but it isn’t relevant I knew if I used this stupid wojack I would get more replies and in turn bumps to my shitty little thread
Damn, now I kinda feel bad for asking.
Don’t be user it’s just me ranting, I could of worded the post a little less harshly. Just to confirm there is no fault in you user
When you spend ⅙ of your life living in a hamlet of less than 1,000 with the nearest town being several hundred clicks away with no road access, loneliness doesn't seem like such a problem anymore
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I imagine bigger things would cause more problems in that scenario like garnering food and medical stuff, still I don’t know if I’d ever be able to deal with those conditions. Did you choose to live there?
It seems so difficult and I am not aware of how people work, I’ll probably skip and embarrass myself
It's not horrendous. As my name suggests (white guy in Inuktitut) I chose to live here. Abandoned Americanised life on Vancouver Island to live in a place relatively untouched by most contemporary globalisation, thus I worked hard to assimilate to local norms.
And for resources, shit's not cheap but we make do.
That is cool, do you plan to fully assimilate like having a family and stuff? Why did you choose to leave Vancouver if you don’t mind me asking?
Is this you? I will be your (boy)friend
Never been huge on having a family, but I may if that's wherefore the wind takes me.
I left VI because I was sick of...
1. Poor planning. Towns would EAT UP gorgeous forests so that they could build 9 more fast food chains, vast parking lots, w i d e suburban deserts and other stuff whilst building campgrounds in downtown (true story); carcentricity was full-swing.
2. No culture. All of anglo Canada was just... beavers and syrup with maple leaves; that was IT! No actual history or unique cultural practices.
3. Too warm.
Nope, probably not that doesn’t sound very liable
Was any culture shock when living with the Inuit? If so what were some of the large shocks?
There wasn't a huge culture shock as one would be had I moved to Asia, but aside from adjusting to a new circadian rhythm, different food and hobbies, it was nothing I didn't already know about. Learning the language without many one-line resources was a challenge.
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I am a socially awkward person who likes to keep to themselves, but yet still craves social interaction and attention, so I'm very lonely. Idk why I'm like this.
This sound very interesting user, what do guys eat fish mostly I assume and other forms of sea food
Literally me and why I decided to make this friend I just want to become part of a group and eat with others at lunch. Or at least become good at something
Fish is literally 80% of traditional meals so yes
Yes. I keep giving my best but life keeps knocking me down. It’s frustrating and I hate this country.
I have basically no friends now.
Find a hobby and make friends that way
I made a couple friends as a complete loser, by joining a local gamedev community
I want a gf
but then I realize that I'm too socially stunted to provide what is entailed in a relationship
I wonder what happens when two socially stunted individuals meet
I heard that eating whale meat was also common yes? (I wonder if my typing comes off as aggressive online)
>I wonder what happens when two socially stunted individuals meet
Just open any thread on Any Forums and see for yourself.
Joining clubs and sports is really the way huh, I should try to that more often I have two years left and this would be good for schools
I would probably just stare at you really intensely and wait for you to make a move
I know exactly how you feel fren, I hope things get better.
Kek that is this board and a lot of other boards on Any Forums fit this description
You too friend I just hope I’m not too late