How do you deal with impostor syndrome, depression, burn out and feeling inadequate, fraud and a failure?
In 2 years working as a dev I managed to quadruple my salary and they promoted to manager. Everyone is looking up to me knowing that I will have the answer but I'm winging even when I'm right. I'm always getting over and above my head. Now I have to manage other people too. I'm still s virgin, a social autist, I can't deal with anymore.
I know I don't have a right to complain, not a single one, but I can't, I have to keep it all inside and I have no one to talk to. What else to do, realistically, other than killing myself and putting an end to this?
>i know this is the most pathetic Any Forums thread currently and ever
>all the kys comments you tell are well deserved
>but I have no one else to talk to
Maybe I will get banned but I am a developer so sort of tech related and it's not a larp even though I wish it was. I should be happy but I'm the lowest point.
How do you deal with impostor syndrome, depression, burn out and feeling inadequate, fraud and a failure?
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Plan a way out. Starting your own business might be a good one. Or become a contractor and live in a van. Or work out how much you'd have to save to retire early and work towards that, which should make the job bearable in the meantime.
>contractor
What is a contractor?
Unironically start lifting to raise your test levels. Sun exposure, pass time in nature and doing some cardio there also helped me with depression.
give your job to me before you kys faggot
start raping your secretary
Serious question: How tall are you?
182cm
Have you tried not being a woman?
>How do you deal with impostor syndrome, depression, burn out and feeling inadequate, fraud and a failure?
dubstep, lots and lots of dubstep
You probably know more than you think. Im in a similar situation and my colleagues constantly tell me I'm good, but I feel like a fucking retard.
>dubstep
Tried it. Helped for some months, comedown was and still is hell.
Or maybe he needs HRT to be a more complete woman.
> How do you deal with impostor syndrome
Just dont be a sussy baka imposter baka :rolling_eyes:
>You probably know more than you think
Even so I'm a virgin and a autist and therefore certified failure, loser and retard.
Unironically visit a shrink. Sounds like you need something to fix your shit.
>inb4 shrinks are for pussies
Enjoy hanging yourself then
I wouldn't know I've been married 11 years.
Seriously, go to the gym.
I have this shit every day and with everything I do, even if I succeed in it. The simple answer is: be vigilant enough to know whether you're shit and ask yourself if you get the job done. If you're shit, either leech the job or quit. If you get the job done; just do the fucking job and treat is as that. Just a job.
I'd like to add, if you're a surgeon or something that matters. Don't leech the job you fucking mong.
my company hired trannies and women who did 6 weeks at a female only code boot camp and there are managers above me who did poli sci and are only good at schmoozing.
is there any real reason to have impostor syndrome?