I did it this month so far and still have perverted thoughts. Like when I see a decent woman on the street I think
>push your ass against my face
and stupid shit like that.
I know it's not the normal "desire" because I don't have a boner or anything, so it's not bodily, it's purely in my head.
How long did it take you to heal your brain?
I did NoPorn and NoFap for 2 weeks once and it changed absolutely nothing about my life or mind with the exception of making me sexually frustrated. I'm convinced that the negative effects of gooning are massively overstated. So long as you arent' a genuine porn addict, you're fine.
I don't want superpowers or anything that nofappers talk about. I just want to heal by brain from the damages internet porn did. I know for a fact that it had an impact on my concentration, productivity and how I act with women. I wanna be like I would be if there was no porn in the world. And two weeks is nothing for that.
I'm just over 100 days nofap and noporn. After about 3 weeks I felt significantly less shitty all the time and it just got easier and easier to ignore any urges, though I still get them from time to time.
>I know for a fact that it had an impact on my concentration, productivity and how I act with women
Yeah I highly doubt it. Been laying siege to my dick with hentai since I was 13 and I'm doing just fine in life. Have you considered that your problems might be caused by something that isn't a common scapegoat?
>and I'm doing just fine in life
Cope
I'm doing no porn because I'm too lazy to find good porn
Regularly go a month or 2 without even thinking about porn or masturbating.
I used to be porn addicted years ago, but the older I get the less I give a fuck about it.
Doing no porn makes you look around for women in public and you obviously get no sex cause you are unattractive regardless if you jerk off or not. Jerking off makes you stop looking around for women in public. No fap is a religious scam.
>Jerking off makes you stop looking around for women in public
And that's the problem. Regardless if I get one or not, I don't want it to alter my brain chemistry to a point that it kills basic instincts.
Also everything in the brain is connected. So if it changed that, it will also change other things (not related to women).
Your basic instinct is telling you to impregnate a woman. And you will never do that if you aren't attractive. The fact that you dabble in nofap means you aren't attractive cause normal people would just laugh at this shit as they cum with their girlfriends everyday and probably jerk off as well. So it is much better to get rid of that instinct.
you won't heal anything until you replace that empty space you've just freed up in your head, man
pick up a hobby, meditate, work out even chaotically just to tire yourself out in the beggining
you're already a champ for going this far, don't let it go to waste thinking you're not seeing any results
it's normal to have weird thoughts, it's worse having sanitized thoughts like you should be able to do harm but not do it, this keeps the psychos from fucking with you because you look like you can put up a fight, just let thoughts go and they won't bother you
I've basically been forced to do it for the last month, I've got a female friend crashing at my place, a small one room+bathroom apartment, so I've got very little privacy and the only place I can fap is in the shower. She's extremely attractive and I think we'll eventually end up fucking though, so I've got plenty to imagine in the shower and honestly can't really get into any porn right now anyway.
I'm not doing Nofap, I just stopped watching porn. And I think I made my reasons pretty clear in this thread.
I went down the rabbit hole of degenerate fetishes to the point where some of the stuff on /d/ didn't really do anything for me. On month 4 of nofap after that realization, doing well. Minimal porn, but I only really looked to do the deed, so I'll usually close it after a minute or two of wondering why I'm looking.
Also, it hasn't really changed how I see women. I know that the sex is often transactional, and carries a lot of baggage. I'm patient, and a bit picky, so I'm fine with waiting for someone I'd actually like to invest my time in.
>I did it this month so far and still have perverted thoughts. Like when I see a decent woman on the street I think
>>push your ass against my face
Why not just accept it? You're a sexual creature. It's not unnatural to have urges.
>It's not unnatural to have urges
That's right, but I don't think it's an urge in at least 80% of the case. When I were having a boner then it would be normal, then it would be a natural urge, but I'm completely non erect in majority of the cases when I have these thoughts. My brain is just fried. Men before there was porn didn't lust after every decent looking women and also not every time.
sure you are,that's why your here,where all the cool and succesful people hang out.
keep it up user, its gonna be better. Urges are normal.
I think you have a problem with the image of women in your head, you see them only as sexual objects. Try to talk to women, try to find female frens, see them as a human beings and you will be fine
I'm on day 4 right now. Wasn't really planning to actually do nofap, but I didn't have the urge at all for 2 days in a row so now I'm just seeing how long I can go.
I honestly fully expect to fail on Friday cause I'll be high and therefore horny.
When I was 11 I would pretend to be sick so I could stay home from school and fap to my dad's porn stash. I told myself that if I were to get a terminal illness I would tell the Make a Wish foundation to arrange an orgy for me as my dying wish. I would stick my dick in a beautiful AIDS-ridden whore for a few minutes of ecstasy. I am controlled by my penis and would undergo deprivation of all kinds just to get beautiful women licking and sucking my balls. I don't want to imagine a world without porn. I am a slave to my penis and balls and wouldn't want it any other way.
Have you ever actually had sex?