What are some of the reasons you avoid relationships of any kind with women?
>refuse to simp, even a little bit
>refuse to participate in any kind of love triangle/soap opera bullshit drama
>don't even want kids
>don't really like people at all
>it's too easy for a woman to ruin someone's life and they face no consequences for lying
Checked.
People in general are just too fickle and lie too much.
Checked. The only reason i might avoid is them and their bullshit. I wouldnt want her to be in my ear all day. Other than that i love pussy.
>the only women pleasant to be around entered menopause 20 years ago
>women only view men as hosts to leech off these days
>it's pathetically easy to have my life ruined by interacting with them
>they have nothing to offer but sex and if you aren't Chad you aren't even getting that without caveats
literally why bother, they're terrible friends and even worse people to count on, if you aren't fucking them what good are they
I don't want to be a wallet with legs
I don't want to peacock
I don't want to answer to someone
it appears being online has rotted your brain away
its not simping to show interest in a woman you like
I feel like it was one a joke that this place makes you stay forever alone but thinking of a basic step in finding a mate as "cringe" can only lead to you being totally alone
>double standards, rules for thee but not for me shit, she can objectify you and hold you to traditional gender roles but she gets to be liberated from all of that and if you say otherwise youre a misogynistic incel
>as you said women have all the power and can lie and ruin your life and everyone will take her side while attacking you, for men its guilty until proven innocent
>women are extreme impulsive whores these days and will cheat on you the second a Chad offers her sex
>if youre not a Chad she will abuse you and use you, and you can be sure shes using you for money or something and doesnt actually love you
>women seem to not even be capable of experiencing love, you can give her the world and she will leave you without a second thought or guilt or negative feelings if something better comes along for her
>monkey branching, its just your turn with her and the whole time shes looking for a better man to get with while she just keeps you around for whatever benefits you offer her
>the moment you show weakness or confide in her and show emotions, she gets the ick and leaves you even if you supported her through her hard times, and all she will say is shes not your therapist or your mother
Thats all I can think of right now because my brain is rotten. Its just not worth being with a female, theyre physically beautiful and can only offer sex but other than that theyre useless trash parasites. I can just get a sex doll or see whores.
>its not simping to show interest in a woman you like
but if you like a woman and she knows it she's going to take whatever she can get from you
so yes, it is simping
when i was a kid i fell in love with this girl who came over to my neighbor's house for 4th of july and went sobbing to my parents about how one of the boys was bullying me. later my sister invited her over to my house and i'd give her unsolicited hugs when she wasn't expecting it. good times...
but i never asked her out. i knew that she, just like everyone else, would hurt me if i opened up and i didn't think she actually liked me. who could like a spastic autist crybaby tantrum-thrower like me?
i also didn't want anyone to know i was dating a girl because they'd have uncomfortable conversations with me about it or spread rumors about us. i was very uncomfortable with sexual topics and honestly, i still am.
nowadays? i don't even respond to women when they try talking to me unless they're taking my order.
>refuse to simp, even a little bit
>refuse to participate in any kind of love triangle/soap opera bullshit drama
yeah, i'll never compete against another man for a girlfriend. i did the online equivalent of that and it made me feel like a huge schmuck. she didn't like me, she just wanted someone to keep her company.
>don't really like people at all
yeah, i'm a misanthrope. i like anime girls like picrel more than i like real people.
>it's too easy for a woman to ruin someone's life and they face no consequences for lying
there are so many bullshit social expectations guys have to meet or people will consider him a garbage human being. yeah, it's not fair, especially if she cheats on you. what are you going to do? cheat back? how? exactly.
forgot to post picrel. which one do i mean? i'll never tell.
Psychologically abused for 20 years by my BPD mother who can't go 24 hours without starting conflict or drama with someone.
Her entire miserable life was dedicated to starting petty conflicts with fucking whoever was nearby at the time. Garbage man too loud? Fight him. Neighbor on her cell phone? Fight her. Chef at restaurant didn't perfectly comply with her very specific request? Scream at waitress for 10 minutes and demand compensation. Son wants to take steps to gain his independence? Punish him severely.
When I say I'd rather die than live without someone who has Borderline Personality Disorder or any Cluster-B type disorders I fucking mean it literally. Death is preferable to that by a wide margin.
I'm scared I might be attracted on some Freudian level to a woman with BPD so I don't even bother with women. I'm so much happier since I got away from that bitch. Jerking off is good enough.
Check'd.
>I also do not simp and do not reward attention seeking behavior
>I also do not support "polyamory" (politically correct slut behavior) or love triangle shit
>I would be open to kids if the absolute state of women wasn't so JUST
>I also have never really liked other people to begin with so that's a mark against the whole thing for me also
>I also agree with your last point and I concur
Bonus points.
>trust/honesty is the single most important moral value I adhere to and I'm sick of giving it but not receiving it from women as they all eventually betray me when it benefits them to do so
>I have not had a memorable or stimulating social exchange with any females in my age group and no post-menopausal woman is going to hang out with a young man she isn't fucking for obvious reasons
Also this, in addition.
I'm just over it all, really. I did not like the terms of the contract so I did not sign it and have come to terms with solitude, it's what I'd been doing all along anyways prior to dabbling with women so thankfully it's a very easy adjustment. I look forward to my exes trying to reach out to me when they're finished with the cock carousel, though - already experienced this a few times. Sad, really. Nothing of value is or was lost by limiting if not eliminating my interaction with the modern women. My wallet and sanity have benefitted immensely.
I've simply resolved to not play the game any longer and as bitter a pill as it was initially, I feel better now.
I was in a love triangle. Me and two girls. They ended up almost killing each other and fighting constantly. I highly recommend to NEVER do this shit because you will end up in some deep shit with a ton of people. People still threaten me in public and I dont even know them for something I did last year. Dont try it. Im moving across the country soon to restart. Its really that bad
>value my free time immensely, low social battery
>monogamy, loyalty, and honesty are hardly ever found in women
>no desire to have children
>no desire to support someone or get into a common law relationship early on
>no desire to entertain or deal with her possibly judgmental family and friends
>too easily influenced by her friends to do dumb whore shit (meek, spineless)
>too emotionally driven, frequently unable to look at problems and situations from a logical perspective, or any perspective other than their own
>People still threaten me in public and I dont even know them
>Im moving across the country soon to restart.
You're being gangstalked and moving won't help especially if you're still naive enough to use social media
>too emotionally driven, frequently unable to look at problems and situations from a logical perspective, or any perspective other than their own
This is the biggest one for me
My mom thought it was a good idea to have a kid by herself, then slutted up to her superiors when she realized how hard it was to do on an Army private's salary.
Now 30 years and two stepdads later I'm just so burnt out on people and relationships and social bullshit I just want to be left alone.
I was never taught how to be a man because who gives a fuck about someone else's kid? I've been taken advantage of by so many people just because I was never taught how to tell someone "no". I missed out on so much because I was always made to feel bad for wanting anything. My mom made me such a people pleasing beta it sickens me.
Whats worse is you have so many problems that """""professionals"""" just chalk up to """chemical imbalance""" so they can shove drugs down your throat.
Being alone is refuge when you don't even want to exist because deep down you know shouldn't have been born in the first place.
>bro just do the pigeon mating dance 100 times its not simping
yes it is. demeaning yourself to 'pursuing' another is giving them all of the power as you are obviously more interested in them than you. You shouldnt have to 'show interest' any more tha simply stating it. All you're doing is attempting to get validation and reciprocaiton via acts or gestures which imo is simping.
Having to show interest is too much peacocking for my taste. Existing should be enough.
>Whats worse is you have so many problems that """""professionals"""" just chalk up to """chemical imbalance""" so they can shove drugs down your throat.
This is why I don't even waste money on therapists. I've had much more epiphanies and productive conversations about my outlook on life the few times I've taken mdma than I ever have with a shrink.
I'm sure it works for some people, but I'm not going to permanently fuck up my brain chemistry to "treat" my problems.
as mentioned, why can one not simply state their interest and get a honest response from a woman? Why do women instead prefer to play stupid mind games and keep everything ambiguous?
If you're 'showing interest' aka courting a woman you're jumping through hoops on her terms in order to get access to her pussy.
>Being alone is refuge when you don't even want to exist because deep down you know shouldn't have been born in the first place.
Fuck.