I've had an LDR girlfriend for the past year and a half. I know it's not an ideal situation, but why does everyone here make it out to be the worst thing ever?
>She is incredibly sweet and cares deeply about my well-being >Isn't crazy, just has social anxiety like me, never plays mind games >Loves me despite me being a fat unaccomplished manchild loser >Haven't had a single serious argument >Similar senses of humour, tastes, interests, and life experiences/lack thereof >We watch movies together, talk every day, send each other gifts >More attractive than me (I'm a hard 4/10, she's a 5-6) >Only had sex with one guy (her ex)
W're hoping to meet up eventually but aren't in a huge rush. Why is this worse than being alone?
Saying LDRs aren't real is an appeal to normalfags I guess.
Gabriel Turner
>W're hoping to meet up eventually but aren't in a huge rush
Hopefully this summer, she needs to save up money to rent a car because hers is falling apart and she refuses to let me pay for it
Gavin Moore
How did you two meet? I'd be okay with this.
Luke Walker
/vg/ Animal Crossing interactions
Justin Baker
>Only had sex with one guy (her ex) You're not her boyfriend.
Nathan Price
some people get different things from relationships. i love talking to my gf through texts and playing games with her but i value just being physically close with her so much more. it's hard to have a weekend without her, let along weeks/months on end in an LDR. different strokes for different folks. happy for you in any case bro
its not impossible to make a ldr work but its extremely rare to actually hold a good one. you have to make sure she likes you (despite not seeing her irl), and you have to meet regularly. its too much work when you can just get somebody irl
Ryder Ramirez
I've never had sex or even hung out alone with a girl IRL, so guess I have nothing to compare it to
How is it more work? Besides, I can't talk to women IRL and the ones around here are trash anyway
Jason Cruz
I'm in the same boat OP I met the sweetest woman and it's killing me being apart for so long. We have plans to bring her to me in May, but even that short amount of time is hell.
Jose Perry
well i guess less physical work but more mental work
Camden Cruz
I find it weird that I'm not really impatient to see mine, I guess the validation of knowing she likes me is more important than sex
Plus we'd mostly just do the same stuff as we do online
Lucas Wood
Weegee?
Cameron Peterson
Yeah, I guess I can understand that. Me and mine have a major breeding fetish and you can't exactly achieve that being a state away. We still talk and play games though.
Samuel Martin
Cause you're going to be wondering if she likes the way you look irl. I mean everyone post pics of themselves in their best light so what about irl
Carter Cook
Fair enough, we don't even talk about sex because we find it embarrassing
Zachary Collins
We've shared EXTREMELY unflattering photos of each other, like pic related tier
>why does everyone here make it out to be the worst thing ever? Short answer is because it's pretty bad but they forget that might be the only chance some people get.
John Campbell
>why does everyone here make it out to be the worst thing ever? She's probably cheating on you with thousands of other online fags or catering to her simps. You're probably just another one in her rotation friend.
Asher Allen
>How is it more work?
>Your person is having a really hard time in life >You are far away and can't close the gap quickly to comfort them >Another in their area comes in saves the day >starts attaching to them more than you >You now need to work three times as hard to outpace the memory imprint of that person around them all the time
Cameron Taylor
inb4 it's a tranny/catfish
Ayden Hernandez
its worse than being alone because you are going to all the effort of dealing with a bitch all the time, including the inevitable misery you will face when she leaves you or cheats on you or whatever, and you don't even get the only good thing women provide - fucking pussy. so it's a huge waste of time and effort and only enjoyed by desperate teenagers.
Lincoln Cooper
Given how much time we spend talking every day, her simps must really be getting the short end of the stick
She has no IRL friends, the only people she talks to in person are her mom and her brother's family, we comfort each other through our words
We occasionally video chat
She's my best friend too
Lucas Clark
>She has no IRL friends -yet- You greatly understatement how little time it takes for things to change, that said that applies to you too so keep your eyes open.
