I can't cum during sex, please help!

For the record I've never had unpaid sex. I've seen several escorts and I almost never came at all, no matter how hot she was or how enthusiastic she is being. Not even close.
Picrel is an escort I have been seeing for a while. She's super cute and she lets me do almost anything I want, but I never got close to finishing with her. Everything is pretty got when we're making out but as soon as I enter her or she sucks me off (all with a condom), it's like my penis knows it's supposed to be receiving pleasure but it doesn't.

This shit is getting me worried for when I actually have sex. I swear I spent half an hour one time just humping this girl and no matter how hard I tried I didn't get closer to finishing. She actually had me stop at that point because she was starting to hurt.
How can I fix this problem?

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How much more porn do you watch?
You can fix it by resetting your libido with nofap. Depending on how long you've watched it might take a few months at worst.

>How much more porn do you watch?
>You can fix it by resetting your libido with nofap. Depending on how long you've watched it might take a few months at worst.

Do you think if I go cold turkey on porn and masturbation that I'll get my penis sensitivity back?

Try getting your nipples sucked. While you jack off. It worked for me.

>cold turkey on porn and masturbation
porn, not masturbation.

Still better than my problem I cum the second I penetrate

>porn, not masturbation.
I can't really do one without the other. I can't remember the last time I have masturbated without porn.

>Still better than my problem I cum the second I penetrate

I wish that was my problem. See, at least if you see an escort you can guarantee that you're going to finish. I have seen around nine different escorts now and didn't come close to finishing. Imagine going, seeing a really hot girl, fucking her for a bit, and then leaving with blue balls. That's basically me.

>I can't really do one without the other. I can't remember the last time I have masturbated without porn.
That's part of the problem. You're struggling to cum because the porn isn't there. You're trying to get over that.

lol youre so pathetic, i bet youre not even 30 yet and you have ED

>all with a condom
>dick doesn't feel pleasure
Found your problem OP desu

>Found your problem OP desu

I have a suspicion that it's mainly the condom. I can cum with a fleshlight no problem.

He doesn't have erectile dysfunction you idiots. Getting soft during sex is much worse than being able to fuck for hours and not being able to cum, that's like a porn star ability

Condoms quite literally ruin sex. Sure they might protect from std, but from a sexual pleasure standpoint they are the worst thing ever invented.

>Getting soft during sex is much worse than being able to fuck for hours and not being able to cum, that's like a porn star ability

This. I'm not getting soft in the middle of sex or anything. I can stay hard the whole time, I just can't fucking coom. There's no point in visiting escorts if I'm going to waste $300 on cardio and not finishing.

Had the same problem. Quit porn and Jerkin. Exercise and took supplements. Paid for no condom. Then it was learning to not coom in 5 pumps

you on anti depressants?

i was on zoloft it did that to me i would get to the edge but never finish

You probably want something more. Maybe if you had trust and an emotional connection you'd have a better time

Try more foreplay. Ask her if she can touch you more and maybe even a massage. You need to stay relaxed. Also, think about it a lot before hand, think about what makes your horny. Hopefully it's her and how she wants to suck you cock and fuck you. That must surely make you feel at least a bit aroused.

Realise that women are attracted to you and want to fuck you, then relax and give them you huge, saved up load.

condom takes away alot of the fun. Also i took ssri and my dick got more numb, now i cant cum with condom anymore and last very long without it and also i have to really "concentrate" during it... that shit was years ago so i suffer permanent damage from it.

other than that going nofap does increase you sensitivity, even just after 2 weeks.

also try fucking in prone bone position, its one of the tightest and most comfy positions.

oh yea also avoid alcohol for obvious reasons