Every time I go on dates I lie about having a job. Who actually wants a neet gf? All I do is sit at home a play video games and watch anime all day.
Every time I go on dates I lie about having a job. Who actually wants a neet gf...
Ian Garcia
David Collins
work is for cucks, if you're a woman just find some guy who'll let you neet as long as you give him children and do all your womanly duties, cooking, cleaning, etc.
Eli Collins
Yet you want an honest, earnest, and genuine man. Cringe op, absolutely cringe
Caleb Thomas
if you study any meme degree he will think "at least she does something" lying at your first meeting for a supposedly long term relationship is fucking retarded you want to be yourself with your most intimate person
Jose Edwards
Yeah Im not gonna do that
If a man wants kids that bad, find a surrogate
Lying about not having a job is not a big deal. Its a job, to make capital. Thats all. Is it really anyones business how I get money? We put too much time and effort into working when your only suppose to work to able to enjoy your life. Then your working so much, you dont enjoy anything.
I could go to college for an easy degree like psychology. Its just like whats the point? Im just anxious and all the low paying jobs ofc have to deal with customer service.
Adam Campbell
>going on dates when you're a neet
must be nice having all that female privilege.
Nah but I get it, when people ask me about my employment, I use terms like freelance, workfromhome, independact consultant ect.
Brandon Ross
God I can't wait to be neet for 8 months when I move in with my bf
Hunter Smith
You can't expect someone to be with a neet if you can't even be a housewife and raise his progeny, hell women might as well been neets for most of history so you're one step closer than a lot of women.
Isaac Ross
>lying about a job isn't a big deal
>lying about something isn't a big deal
>lying isn't a big deal
>lying is OK in certain favorable conditions
Absolutely cringe op lying in a romantic relationship is absolutely not okay
Bentley Myers
>Im just anxious and all the low paying jobs ofc have to deal with customer service.
fighting anxiety is hard but just practice in situations where you have the advantage like YOU being the customer go to clothing shop and ask for stuff. it will be annoying for them specially if you don't buy nothing but at least you will gain experience. if you wanna learn about psychology start with philosophy first it will reassure your individualism and it's fun
Isaac Evans
>Who actually wants a neet gf?
Last girl I dated was struggling pretty hard because her family is complete and utter fucking ass.
It always depends on the case if somebody is just lazy or had shit thrown at them which made it really hard.
My income would easily allow me to have a whole family, so it's not like her not being able to work or figuring shit out would be very cumbersome.
That being said, if you yourself feel like you're unworthy, then you won't be happy with anybody else. You'll just drive them away at some point.
Develop some skills or start some kind of part time work to improve your self-esteem and how you feel about yourself.
>If a man wants kids that bad, find a surrogate
Anybody who says "if you don't want kids with me, I won't even date you" is not worth anybody's time. It's a massive red flag.
>I could go to college for an easy degree like psychology.
Not a good idea.
You most likely won't make any money from a degree like that.
Brandon Diaz
Me, come, I'll sustain your neet lifestyle
Mason Hall
I dont think women arent going out with you because of your lack of employment. If your using any dating app just like dont put your employment down
It feels like having a parent but they actually are happy to see you when they get off
Cringeeeeee
I usually just tell them I quit or lost my job. So they can get to know me before my employment status. If it gets that far.
I know a lot about both already, I just think that getting a career is psychology is easy. Your not developing any new theories or solving any problems.
Also talking to people makes me physically sick. I barley go grocery shopping or order food for myself because of it. I watched one movie where this guys whole job was just to sit in the back and rewind tapes. Sounds like a dream desu
Im not lazy, I held a job for a long time. Which only made my social anxiety and anxiety about working worse. I would get teased by the older women who worked around me. The manager yelled at me once for missing work because I had surgery and then took me back in her office and yelled at me for crying.
I thought about volunteering for the animal shelter so I could just be around dogs all day.
>kids
I dont really want kids.. I wanna be my husbands priority. It probably comes from my lack of love as a child but I dont wanna share him with some drooling infant.
>you wont make money
I absolutely already know that. Same with being a teacher or any career like that. Yeah theyre easy but your not gonna be able to pay your student loans.
Will you though?
Gabriel Cooper
>Will you though
I let my sister freeload at my home because she's good company, I'll happily upgrade to someone I can actually date.
Yeah, not having a job/studying won't make me drop women as possible partners
Ethan Moore
>Which only made my social anxiety and anxiety about working worse.
Sorry to hear you had such a bad experience.
There are jobs where you can work from home too though. Or you learn something like producing music, drawing, singing etc. Do Youtube, Twitch on the side and that might help you with your anxiety too. I know a streamer who started it because they were having a hard time talking to people IRL. Streaming actually made them more comfortable talking, since you kinda have to.
Doing any kind of work, even if it's not or only badly paid, like at an animal shelter, is better than not doing anything productive at all imo.
>student loans.
Ah, so you are in the land of the fucked.
John Perez
>cringeeeeeee
Nice projection. Liar keep lying to partners and getting no where. Then post about your retarded shit on r9k like you're not a pos
Leo Morris
Yeah but are you gonna be too cranky when you get off of work to crawl in a blanket fort with me?
Its really okay, you get use to being scared all the time. When I try things like that I just focus on being good, so then I never really enjoy it. Streaming isnt a bad idea though. I get told I have a cute voice all the time. plus if I get anxious I can just smash my computer to bits so no one sees me. Americans are weird because they all wanna work the most hours as possible. I just wanna job I barely work just to get out of the house and make it feel like Im doing something.
I sense your jealous for some reason. Its not like I have AIDS or a secret family. I just am a neet. When I go on dates, I always bring my own money too.
Colton Murphy
Why would I be cranky? I love my job! It's what let's me sustain cute girls like you.
Also it's 6 hours a day.
Ryder Adams
>I sense you're jealous
No I'm just upset. See your issue is dishonesty. My issue is over honesty and no filter. Even you minimizing lying aggravates me. If you're just a neet then why lie? If you're so okay with it? If this happened to me I'd immediately end a relationship, because lying during the foundation shows a lack of care for honesty and lack of care for me or my informed decision. It's super duper cringe to lie, especially about something so dumb, especially when you act so nonchalantly about being a neet and lying
Nolan Wright
My old bf would be cranky all the time and blame it on working. I would wanna wake him up to cuddle and hear how I was disrespectful and blah blah. I just wanted to be next to him..
Cringe
Henry Sanders
>whore withholds crucial information from prospective male prospect
>jumps through psychological hoops in the thread to justify it
guys i think this one might actually be real
Austin Smith
she is you can see it because it tries to justify all her shitty actions a lair would just say yeah i gotta get better
Thomas Perez
>cringe
Unoriginal as well as cringe. Noted
Austin Gomez
Sorry girl. But I already know what I'm getting from the get go, won't be very intelligent to get mad at you, I'll tell you what I told my sister,
"Be happy! Smile a lot! Help around the house if you feel like it, try to keep clean what you use and never hold what you're feeling or what you want to say to me", then we'll be golden
Jeremiah Long
I wouldnt care about you not having a job. I would just like you to be willing to improve your life among me little by little. The problem would be if your only ambition is to play videogames and watch anime every day. That shit is fun until it becomes depressing