Wait you guys don't insert as the girl when you watch porn?!

come here... i'll give you a SLAP

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maybe by default but male porn stars tend to work out a lot.
regardless you should realize that that isn't the point, the point is you're more male than a literal woman. masculinity and femininity are basically endgame-tier windowdressing, it's still windowdressing.
and being more masculine than the woman in the porn you watch should be well doable. (that's enough unless you're making it a competition with the porny male.)
if that's difficult to hack for your brain in one go just stick to soft porn or lewds of just women, it's not healthy to watch porn where you consistently fail to self-insert as the man.

>it's not healthy to watch porn where you consistently fail to self-insert as the man.
Why?

because it can undermine your masculine identity, it's like lending with your sexual health as collateral.
it's different when you're on a level where you can choose to self-insert as either (or both!) because then you can do the balancing of your masculine and feminine traits by yourself, almost by definition.

>being more masculine than the woman in the porn you watch should be well doable.
I'm pretty thin and small. It always feels like I'm closer to the female than the male

What if being a man fucking a woman isn't as hot to me as being a woman fucked by a man?

then I'd say you're misinvesting your time spent fantasizing because YWNBAW
e.g. go gain some more control over your sexual preferences, it's perfectly doable.

I know I will never be a woman. But that doesn't make it any less attractive to me. How is it doable? I always liked it more.

changing your environment so you change by osmosis.
moving to a different house or climate could very well do it, but the more immediate solution is changing your "sexual content diet".

I don't see how is sexual preference related to environment. Most of my sexual content diet are my own fantasies. Why would I fantasize about something that is not hot to me?

you can change your environment. can you change your internal workings? if not, then all you can do is change your environment.
>why
counter-question, why would you expand your tastes when all you eat is mac and cheese? why look up a recipe when you could be cooking mac and cheese instead? why buy greens when you could be buying mac and cheese?

Man, my dick literally refuses to get and stay hard if I am not self-inserting as a woman. That's why I do it. I don't think sexuality is something you can just expand to whatever you want like food.

>only watch lesbian or glory hole porn.
>don't self insert as the girl.
>just imagine getting my dick sucked or watching 2 bitches get it on before i join in.

any dick in my porn better not have a face/body attached to it or be rubber.

what's so different about them?
you cook food, you cook up fantasies.
both have recipes, e.g. consider literotica.
both have various media/substances, artificial and natural.
both involve various actions and implements (e.g. body parts).

re. the "dick won't stay hard" excuse -
just feed it whatever you want to become acquinted with whenever you are hard already? what's it going to do, stop becoming erect indefinitely? stop you from reading shmut or looking at nekid ladies?

And the point of that is? I would still depend on those fantasies.

>>wait you guys don't insert as the girl when you watch porn?!
when watching lezdom

read You are on your path of homosexuality. Its not your fault. Its a psyop targeted against you. Almost every media is targeted against you. Stop consuming porn. The more oyu reinforce that shit the harder it will to get away from it.

I don't watch porn, man. I can get off to photo of fully clothed attractive woman if I just self-insert as her.

>if I eat other things than mac and cheese I'll still be addicted to mac and cheese
>... so it's pointless to eat something other than mac and cheese, ok???

Yeah this is just how it starts. You probably just need some trigger, or some extrinsic factor(therapy, meds, drugs, traumatic event, trigger) that'll drive you further into this direction. Its always like that. People don't believe it until it happens. If you'd know it'd happen you wouldn't do it... just saying you dont have to justify yourself, i just give you the information. What you do with it is yours.