Did porn made me asexual?

Did porn made me asexual?
I've been a porn addict for more than I can remember, but at least for 10 years. I'm watching straight porn.

I don't like homos, and I'm disgusted by them, but I don't care about women as well; I just ignore them. I feel no desire to talk with them.

Another thing I noticed. I used porn as a "stress release" so when I was uncomfortable doing something, I used porn to cope with the stress.
Basically, when I don't like something, I'm on "fight or flight mode" and "my flight" is porn.
When I talk with someone I don't like or do something I don't like, I blabber and get stressed, thus I barely talk and want to get out of there asap. And I was like this since forever.

Now that I'm realizing this, I know porn fucked me up real good. Probably my long usage of porn lowered my testosterone levels as well, so that's why every time I don't like something and "flight or fight" mode activates, I always choose "the flight" and don't face my problems.

If I stop porn and start no fap, will I get interested in women and hopefully get a GF?

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Yes you will.

I on day 21 atm and I already feel slight attraction to irl women.

Yes you will. Don't go cold turkey, I recommend going no porn but fap as much as you want at first. Then eventually nofap. Alongside this, the best you can do is talk to women, socialise, education, career prep etc. Are there any job interviews posted? Any local music events tonight that you can buy tickets for? The other night I fancied some metal so paid 10 quid for a local event. Fun times, met people, plenty of girls (I have a gf so didn't hit on them but point is they are out there)

>get interested in women
yes
>get a GF
not as a result of nofap

The absolute state of western men

Yes OP, porn fucked you, but the good news is: is totally unfuckable. It's very simple, and you can be very hopeful that the future will be bright. You will finally start to live as you should've all along.

Read easypeasymethod.org

Also, complementing: You are using porn to relieve stress because porn causes stress that only porn solves . Like heroin causes stress, if you don't use heroin you don't have the desire and the stress of wanting a fix, but the good news is that stopping porn is not hard, and soon you will get a big stressor out of your life.

Do you still get morning wood? Random erections? Can you get a boner with or without porn?

I appreciate your help, will read the book.

I don't recall but I should check if I do or not.
If I don't, what that means?

Not op but I haven't had morning wood for at least 2 years. I'm 22 and run/lift. Should I get my hormones checked? I feel very depressed too.

Yes, I've felt the same way.

Go on nofap. If you have to fap then don't fap to porn.

t. 1 month on nofap feeling better than ever.

Meh, it's probably just mental. I almost never get morning wood and am very active. I also haven't been laid in 3 years. I know literal low test people that say they get morning wood, but they also don't sleep alone

Just stop watching porn bro. It brings nothing of value and destroys your health.

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You should stop too.


I am 24 yo, had all the problems you porn users are mentioning here. Also only fapped to weird shit, with extreme humiliation and piss.

Stopped porn one year ago, started dating one month later, stoped desiring all this shit altogether, and I simply cannot summarize how much good stopping porn and fapping has brought to my life. I truly can't, you guys wouldn't believe, you have to see for yourselves.

Read the fucking book, stop watching porn and maybe throw a party to celebrate it, because I am telling you bros, this is the fucking answer to so many questions. Porn has fucked us in so many ways that we simply can't comprehend

I haven't watched porn in a month. Reading all the stuff about how porn is bad for you and causes ED is tempting me into quitting cold turkey and fapping without it.

I'm not sure if nofap is healthy long term but porn is definitely bad.

My problem with fapping without porn is that, when I did it, I didn't kill the desire. I once went for 125 days fapping only to my mental images, but again, these were the stuff I saw in porn but done to women I knew in real life.

Of course, eventually I failed, because I kept the desire alive, only never satisfyingly it to completion. I find it much easier to not watch porn, not fap, and also (now that I am single), not pursue casual sex.

I am looking for a wife, and as everything that I like to do in my life, I want to to it THE BEST WAY. I want to marry a woman and never lay with another woman ever again, so why the fuck pursue meaningless sex now? So later I can mourn that I can't do it anymore? What is going to bring me? I can do so much wonderful stuff with my time, there is so much I love about living, there is so much in life to be enjoyed, in my experience casual sex only gets in the way of all of this (notice am not even talking about not fapping anymore, I am talking about complete abstinence until you can find someone to love).

And OF COURSE sex is also wonderful and some of the greatest things in life to be enjoyed. I am not going against that, on the very contrary, that's the whole fucking point. I don't want to banalize it. I am looking in the long term, I want sex with my futuere wife to be good, to be special, to be something I truly value and not feel like she is missing something because I have been getting used to useless stimuli: be it casual sex, fapping, or porn (the fucking worse of all, much much worse than the other two)

There is a way to save yourself.
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Its you,you're your problem.

Simple as.

Also while you're shilling it: The original (Carr's book) is the absolute greatest thing alive if you are still smoking.

Even if you don't want to quit rn, just give it a try.

I feel this way as well. Virgin incel and i just feel no reason to talk or hook up with women, it seems like a biog hassle pain in the ass. When i get home from work I want to play vidya, have a bath, etc etc. The last thing i feel like doing is jumping through hoops circus clown dancing all to get some roastie on tinder whose probably had 2 dozen cocks already. The process seems exhausting. I genuinely have no interest in it. That being said ive also been a porn addict for at least 8 years, so I think ive just mindfucked myself.

same bro

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