How are tranny DGGers holding up with this recent controversy...

why the fucked would you watch this ""debate"" faggotry in the first place?

It is kinda funny tho. He was having a talk recently about ways to avoid sexual assault with Mr. Girl, and Mr. Girl would constantly say it in the most outrageous, victim blamey way possible, even if the general point was true. Destiny was trying to help him seem like toxic to strangers by rephrasing it into a much more acceptable way (something like, even if getting assaulted isn’t your fault, there are still precautions you can take to reduce the chance of it happening).

Then he goes on twitter a week or two later and does what he spent like half an hour telling Mr. Girl not to do kek

Who care

its his fault for wording things as provocatively as possible to both rile up people like me and fuel those who truly victim blame. he knows this and has admitted it when challenged on it. talking about how to handle sex safely is important but he chooses to do it int he most inflammatory and dangerous ways possible

I'm pretty sure Mr. Girl straight up said it's the victims fault somewhat while Destiny has consistently said it's not their fault but they should still take care to avoid such situations.

nta but it seems like a huge stretch to call this dangerous or anything. I dunno how this would cause harm directly or indirectly, but I do agree he just outrage farms on twitter and doesn’t have any room to bitch about people getting upset at him when he does it.

it fuels those who actively victim blame and deny sexual assault. by saying things in this way it continues to give them ammo even if its not how he means. look how easily nick fuentes praised him for saying nazi points in a hypothetical. the difference is in these cases hes saying it as something he truly means.

Well well how the turntables. Sounds like you're blaming the victim for your own or other people's misunderstanding.

Isn’t that the same thing though? Like, isn’t admitting some extent of the cause of your assault lies with the victim admitting there is some blame? It was definitely worded way differently, and I think Mr. Girl’s approach would be insulting to most victims and the people who know victims.

The problem is more thay blame is a super loaded word, but if you took it as detached as possible it looks about the same to me.

??? wha the fuck are you talking about, i said he gives those who do that fuel by sayign things in this way

His take isn't very controversial, he just frames it in such a way as to farm drama, then goes off as hard as possible on the people who fall for the bait.
His take is basically
>someone doing that is a rapist, but it's important to be feel comfortable enough with your sexual partner that you can set boundaries, voice discomfort, etc. If you can't do that then you shouldn't be having casual sex with that person and you should maybe be looking for more serious relationships where you feel comfortable.
While that isn't very controversial, it isn't necessarily right either.
He likely comes to this take because he's involved in the "swinger lifestyle" so he has had to speak up when his girlfriend is getting dicked down too hard and feels insecure, or when his own ass is getting stretched out too much.
What he's missing is that people who have previously been sexually assaulted (like the girl on twitter he's been REEing at), you can get triggered by things that cross your boundaries and suddenly feel unsafe and vulnerable around someone you previously felt comfortable with. Someone taking a condom off IS rape, so when someone begins raping you it's not unreasonable to become too frightened of someone to want to speak up.

But it's a marginal take he as, and not totally unacceptable. He words it in such a way as to piss off the maximum number of people but still have a way to defend it. His simps will be on-side, and that starts a whole big drama cycle.

Only if you intentionally misunderstand and misrepresent his point. I don't believe he gives them fule. You're just being ultra fragile over this topic.

exactly this. he ignores that most of the time its a story about those who actually were raped or abused and he uses it as a thing to be controversial and stir drama to bring attention to himself.

i understand his point. im saying when he initially says it its framed int the most disgusting way possible in order to incite people.

ew who is this ugly fag for real

He can’t help it. That’s what happened when you’re made up of 50% mommy and 50% daddy.