Does anyone else wear like a dysphoria totem when having sex or whatever? I can't stand the idea of being naked around people but I am 100% ok with it if I am wearing socks and something like arm covers or a harness on my upper body.
Like, it doesn't change my body shape at all, but the idea of being ACTUALLY naked in front of someone makes me want to die.
i havent had sex in like 4 years but i had to keep my shirt on because dysphoria back then
i wanna wear stocking while riding someone now
not because of dysphoria, it just feels like a hot thing to do
that's ok, no one wants to see your feet while fucking you
I legitimately basically wear the rightmost pic under all my clothes. Prolly holdover from when I was fucking a guy almost every day, so good to be prepared to strip whenever.
Actually one very big reason I always found women hotter in porn was because they are not completely naked. They have some lewd clothes on, while men are just like oh yea they're just naked that's it. It's just plain and boring.
My ex would sometimes wear her shirt for the same reason, but not always
Hot
>Does anyone else wear like a dysphoria totem when having sex or whatever?
idk what you mean by totem but it's not even uncommon for cis girls to keep their bras on and stuff like that
>idk what you mean by totem
Like, I know I look really good when I wear that sort of stuff, so it lets me set aside my insecurities. That kind of clothing has symbolic importance because I literally imagine it keeping my self hate and dysphoria at bay.
So you've never been naked in front of the 600+ people that you've slept with.
Lol nope. Not willingly anyway. Socks stay on during sex. If you're going to piss on me, I'll just change socks after. If you want to shower together, I'll either wear the socks or refuse.
Kinda funny honestly, but ok
Btw you probably don't remember but we've talked before, how is your relationship with your family?
Is pretty good. They care for me a lot even if they don't get it. I feel like I don't deserve them and simultaneously harbor resentment towards them for shit like not telling me they would still love me if I was gay.
I'm glad, last time we talked you were very much in your head about these things
Ya;; Christmas visit was really nice :)
They do NOT care for how I dress now though, but they were careful not to express it lol. I know they think I look like a retard :P
What do you dress like?
Btw have you accepted yourself? Or are you still self concious about your past?
Bottoms can wear things like picrel to be hot, but what is a top supposed to do? Not only is there not much clothing variety for masculine men, but there isn't much sexy time attire either, I wan to look the best I can but when it comes to sex I can only think to be naked or have only my shirt on, which isn't better IMO.
You should wear a cape like Superman :D
More gothy and spikey tho.
>Btw have you accepted yourself? Or are you still self concious about your past?
Oh I am a loooong way from accepting myself. My mental health generally is inversely correlated with how much I'm on this site. Not feeling too bad today tho, just about to go do lots of work desu.
Yeah, and women can wear a thousand things that look aesthetically pleasing, but cute or sexy outfits on big muscular men just look off, is there an answer to this. To be fair most men in porn aren't even good looking so maybe the answer is just being handsome.
Gay dudes have lots of hot shit to wear
Yes, socks and a frilly bra help a lot for being comfy for me, a lot of people like it anyway
Well I hope things work out for you, I think you are cool
I want to attract femboys AND heterosexual women alike, won't wear anything that makes me look gay.
you can wear the same thing, it's still hot. if a bottom tells you otherwise he's a woman
*shrug* I know I like leather stuff on dudes sometimes. Jocks are always good it you're fit and swimwear looks awesome. Personally I like guys wearing harnesses if they are fit, but I know lots of peops don't care for that look. Also topless while still wearing pants is fucking hot and no one can change my mind.
Swimwear and jocks are pure gayness, can't allow that, same for harnesses, wearing pants while topless is good but at the end of the day you have to get your dick out to fuck.
Bitch, don't ask for advice then be upset that the only people who have invested interest in making masc bodies look hot af have gotten to the good ideas before you.
Have you been blacked before?
I am not upset, also I don't understand your comment, I am just dissapointed because if I was a woman or a twink and I wanted to be sexy as fuck I would KNOW exactly what to wear day to day and during sex, but I have no idea of what I want for me, all I know is that what I am being told is not it.
No, I've only fucked 600+ pure white Aryans with blue eyes, blond hair and a thirst to dominate europe.
Of course I've fucked black dudes and asian dude dudes and arab dudes and white dudes and Indian dudes... I don't do the sexualized racism shit tho.
I think you would be surprised. Look at what dudes wear in bdsm and shit. For day to day stuff, find models/influencers who look like you and take inspiration from them.